Valentine Tips

How to create special and lasting memories with your loved ones.

Many people have asked me if my brand has a custom Valentine's package for 2023 and my usual response is always "No, but the brand can always curate gifts for your loved ones like we usually do." Of course, cupcakes and cake loaves are up for sale on Valentine's Day so please preorder.

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Hello and welcome to my space. To be completely honest, I know I should give a brief introduction about myself, but this topic came up at the right time, and I really don't want to put it off any longer. I know you might be wondering what I'm talking about because I'm usually reluctant to publish my writings online; only my folks have access to them.

However, today, I made the decision to change my mind and take this bold step. I promise to give a proper introduction about myself moving forward.

I run a brand, and the major objective of my brand, 1704 by Themmie, is to share happiness whilst creating delightful memories. Among all the other days of the year, Valentine's Day is one where, in my opinion, you may do something special for your loved one(s) that will make and mark a key event in their lives.

I'll be giving you five key suggestions for a special Valentine's Day without going over budget.

Number One; Everyone is familiar with the idea that February 14th is Valentine's Day and that it is a season of love; therefore, whatever you do for your partner or loved ones on that day is likely to stay in their hearts for the rest of their lives. Even those who don't do well with dates will always remember in the years to come, easily bringing back pleasant memories.

Number Two; Do you and the person you want to buy gifts for share the same perceptions about how to express love? Let's use your partner as an example. How do they express their love? Do you understand what makes him/her feel loved? You can move on to the next phase if you have the answers to these questions. This is crucial because you wouldn't want to buy them anything so that they can fake appreciate you and then find out after a few weeks that they don't actually like what you gave them or isn't as special as you think it would be.

Number Three; Think, go back to your chat, your conversation, and your head for any random things they have consistently indicated they would like to have or do. Again, as I always tell people, even the smallest gestures may be the most considerate gifts. For instance, they may have been wanting to go on a date to a particular restaurant because they have good food. Take them there and pay the bills. As tradition as, Amala date might seem, it means a whole lot to some people😭😂😂, anyway you get my point right?

Number 4; Never undervalue the impact of sending someone a love note, whether it be by handwritten notes, cards, via DMs, mail, or a letter, to let them know how much they mean to you and how much they matter to you. This little thing is priceless. I polled a small group of my friends who are in relationships, and they absolutely agreed to this. Reassurance is everyone's love language, so remind them of your feelings for them and the reason you choose to be with them.

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Number 5; Give thoughtful, intentional gifts whenever you can. Give your partners a gift based on what they desire and what they need this is 2023. Please don't take offense to cookies, chocolates, or roses.(Lol, they're quite necessary but not exactly for a special and remarkable day.) We all understand what is actually most crucial. Give your special someone the best gift of all: your time, presence, and undivided attention. If you could ease some of their strain, people would greatly appreciate it. They should improve their game in their line of work, for instance, by offering to pay for a course in a skill they are interested in, buying them an outfit they have always desired, or making an attempt to be involved in the services they provide or sending them money!

PS: This is not in any way to prevent you from buying your packages from your vendors, just be intentional about gifting moving forward and of course, buy your cakes and pastries from my brand especially if you're in my city.

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Themmie.❤